The measured point is that the red card is still unavoidable because you cannot swing at someone and expect sympathy. But what makes it interesting is how the incident sits inside the wider culture of players getting in each others faces, the ref not dealing with it, the crowd feeding off it, and then the whole thing turning into a kind of theatre where everyone knows the script but still acts outraged when the inevitable happens, which is exactly why these moments keep happening and why people keep clipping them and arguing about them for days