There is a point here about how little margin there is in knockout football when both teams are this cautious, because once it becomes about game management and nerves, you can almost predict that one mistake or one bad decision will decide everything, and the Netherlands seemed to spend the whole night trying not to lose rather than trying to win, which is a dangerous way to live in a tournament like this, but then I keep coming back to how bizarre the penalties were and how everyone in the stadium and online seemed to lose their minds at once because it felt like the whole match had been building toward pure chaos and then it just exploded into confusion and moaning and people blaming coaches and keepers and stutter steps and all the rest of it